古人云：
The ancients cloud:
不积跬步，无以至千里
A thousand miles
不积小流，无以成江海
No small stream, no river and sea
在浩浩荡荡的历史洪流中
To go forward with great strength and vigour in the history
多少名流，豪杰，成功人士
How many celebrities, heroes, successes
他们所获得的成就无一不是靠着自身百分之200的坚持不懈与努力
All the achievements they have achieved depend on the perseverance and efforts of their own two hundred percent
小到滴水石穿，大至开荒破洪
Small constant to break flood wasteland
而现如今，在跆拳道的领域
And now, in the field of Taekwondo
出现了一位“杀手”——请假
A "killer" - ask for leave
这位杀手抹杀的不单单只是跆拳道
The killer is not just a taekwondo
而是抹杀孩子的整个人生!
But to kill the whole life of the child!
01
01
家长过于溺爱
Parents are overindulgent
这年头，哪个孩子不是父母的掌上明珠
This year, one of the children of parents is a pearl in the palm
捧着怕摔了，含着怕化了
To be afraid to fall, with a fear of turning
昨儿个睡懒觉，赖在被窝了---请假
Yesterday to sleep, stay in bed, leave
今儿个练久了，手脚酸痛了---请假
I practiced for a long time, sore hands and feet - leave
明儿个太热了，害怕中暑了---请假
Tomorrow is too hot, afraid of heat stroke - leave
过几天又因为谁生日，玩耍---请假
In a few days, because of who's birthday, play - - ask for leave
……
......
在孩子百般撒娇，坐地耍赖下
The children all sit down so shamelessly
家长又拿孩子没办法，任意为之
The parents can't take their children again.
02
02
学习进度跟不上
Learning progress can't follow
跆拳道这门功课
Taekwondo this course
讲究循序渐进
Pay attention to step by step
一步一个脚印
Work steadily
昨天你来了，学了前踢
Yesterday you came, learned the front kicks
今天你请假，教练教了下劈
Today you ask for leave, the coach teaches the next split
赶明儿同学们做动作，就你生生卡在下劈
Tomorrow my classmates do the action, you live in split card
动作不标准
Non standard action
要领不明确
The essentials are not clear
耽误自己学习进度
Delay the progress of my study
久而久之你会发现
You'll find it over time
当别人已经学会跆拳道时，你可能只学会“抬起拳”
When others have learned Taekwondo, you may only learn to "lift the fist"
于是你心灰意冷，觉得白白浪费了时间，精力
So you're disheartened and you think it's a waste of time and energy.
03
03
影响孩子整个三观
The influence of three children
请假虽然不是毒品
Asking for leave is not a drug
但效果不逊色于毒品
But the effect is not inferior to drugs
经常请假，让孩子有了逃避的思想
Often ask for leave, let the child have the idea of escape
能不去就不去，傻子才去累的半死呢
If you can't go, a fool can die half dead
现在影响学习跆拳道，以后影响整个人生
Now it influences the learning of Taekwondo and affects the whole life.
在遇到别的事，就会有惯性思维
In the encounter with other things, there will be an inertial mind
跆拳道能请假，读书也能请假
Taekwondo can ask for leave, and reading can ask for leave
工作能请假，啥事都能请假
Work can ask for leave, anything can be asked for leave
整个人变得散漫，懒惰。
The whole man became sloth and laziness.
不拼搏，不进取
Not struggling, not enterprising
无毅力，无未来
No perseverance, no future
这不是跆拳道要教给你的内容!
This is not what Taekwondo wants to teach you!
更不是跆拳道要传递出的精神!
It is not the spirit of Taekwondo to pass out!
04
04
养成拖拉的习惯
Develop the habit of dragging
经常请假的孩子容易患“拖延症”，
Children who often ask for leave are prone to "procrastination".
什么事情都要缓一缓。
Everything should be slowed down.
读书学习也是一样，
The same is the same for reading and learning.
作业不按时完成，
The homework is not finished on time.
能拖多久算多久，
How long will it be?
临时抱佛脚。
Cramming.
上学也会一样，
School will be the same.
易养成逃学的习惯。
It's easy to get into the habit of playing truant.
时间长了，
It's been a long time,
很容易变成问题少年。
It's easy to become a problem teenager.
05
05
缺少拼搏的精神
A lack of fighting spirit
学跆拳道经常请假的孩子，
Learn the children who often ask for leave in Taekwondo,
缺乏进取精神，
Lack of enterprising spirit,
总以为什么事情都有父母安排。
There is always a parent arrangement for why.
这样的孩子，
Such a child,
意志力极为薄弱，
The willpower is extremely weak.
遇到任何事情都逃避，
Run away from everything.
不敢面对现实。
Dare not face the reality.
长此以往，
If things go on like this，
会变成一个很懦弱的人。
It will become a very cowardly man.
当然，也不是说就完全不能请假
Of course, it is not to say that you can't ask for a leave.
除非遇到非请不可的事情
Unless you meet something that is impossible to do
既然选择了学习，就要坚持到底
Since we have chosen to study, we must stick to it.
减少自己的玩心，
Reduce your heart,
克服自己的懒惰，
Overcoming one's own laziness,
学会对自己说努力
Learn to work hard on yourself
而不是对自己说NO
Instead of saying NO to yourself
除了孩子，更重要的家长本身
In addition to children, more important parents themselves
家长是孩子最大的学习对象
Parents are the biggest subjects for children
家长对孩子来说就像一面镜子
Parents are like a mirror to a child
你怎么做，孩子就会跟你学
How do you do it, the child will learn from you
孩子们都是花朵，没有错
The children are all flowers, no mistake.
但是花朵不能一直待在温室
But the flowers don't stay in the greenhouse all the time
就像天鹅，在人工养殖下，翅膀退化
Like a swan, under artificial breeding, the wings degenerate
失去了捕食能力，丧失了自我
Loss of predation, loss of self
人给什么食物，它只能接受什么食物
What food is given to a man, it can only accept what food it is
花朵需要经历风雨的洗礼
Flowers need to go through the baptism of wind and rain
这样的成长才会健康，圆满。
This kind of growth will be healthy and perfect.